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Renee's avatar

I pray for wisdom, peace, healing and understanding within your soul. It's hard when it seems as if we're blindsided by the very man we are in love with. However, you've got this, just remember to choose the beautiful Queen you see in the mirror FIRST! She is the only person that can create your HAPPINESS from the inside out. It's hard at first, (going thru it now) but when you remember you are your own light it is then you will never forget your shades.

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Jacqueline Wright's avatar

I pray for peace and healing in this time. Put God first and this too shall past. I’m sure many women appreciate your transparency love you 🥰

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LeQuesha's avatar

You got this Queen. You’re a Capricorn it’s what we do! Happy belated birthday 🥳

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Thank you, sis! 🥰 I hope you enjoyed your birthday.

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Charliese Parker's avatar

It’s takes soooo much courage to do what you did! You did the thing lots of us only thought about doing! You showed us vulnerability and we all can relate to the space you’re in. I’m proud of your courage to make a decision for YOU. Sometimes starting over is a breath of fresh air. Remember so many things in our lives are seasonal... you are a beautiful flower and even beautiful flowers go through changes. Just remember spring is around the corner and just like that flower you’ll bloom yet again. Stay strong, continue to bloom, grow and heal! You got this!

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Whew, this message was EVERYTHING, Charliese!!! Thank you so much for reading and pouring into me. I didn't see my moving as courageous but admittedly, it was a huge leap. I cannot wait until spring. I am ready to blossom. 🌷🙌🏽

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Charliese Parker's avatar

Yesssss! You got this ❤️😘

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BLit's avatar

Your journey is yours, you will appreciate the growth from it all. Enjoy it, live life, and surround yourself with positive energy.

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Thank you so much for reading and for your encouragement. ❤️

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Ebony's avatar

Absolutely Profound!!! Your level of vulnerability and strength is the perfect balance needed to catapult you into your next season of GROWTH, MATURITY and HEALING!!! I love the way your word choice pulls the reader in and make them feel as if they know you personally and can empathize or rejoice in all you are going through. You've Got This!! #ButGod

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

This is such a lovely comment. Thank you, Ebony! I really appreciate it. 🥰

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threedst's avatar

An amazing read. You're blessed. You're protected. You're on the right journey. Beautiful beginnings await you. ❤

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

I receive that. Thank you! 🥰

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Raven's avatar

I’ve said before and I’ll say it again, you have such a way with words. Poignant, heartfelt and authentic. Not to minimize what is happening for you, but the way you articulated it felt cinematic - that’s just a testament to how amazingly talented you are. I’m angry that you had to uproot but I am so damn proud of you for doing what many of us struggle to do some times. I have no doubt that you’ll heal, but I want to say it’s ok for you fall into pieces. God knows I struggle with the same thing, but it’s a part of the process. Love you, girl and I’m excited for what you have in store for us 💛

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Cinematic?! Whew, I am flattered! Raven, I love you more. Thanks for reading and being a friend.

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Marilu's avatar

You WILL get through this! You're strong and you have overcome many things in the little time I've known you. Sending big hugs and prayers, you got this An'Drea!

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Hugs to you, Marilu. Thank you so much for subscribing and reading and the words of encouragement. I need them.

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von's avatar

Thanks for sharing! In order to heal in peace sometimes we have to change our surroundings!! I hope that you find comfort and a peaceful healing!

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Indeed. Thank you so much, Von.

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Kenya Foy's avatar

Damn, Drea. This was so raw and heartfelt. I can't imagine the strength it took to share but I appreciate the vulnerability. Sending you strength and healing vibes. You got this!

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Thank you sooooo much, Kenya. I spent days writing and editing it. I cut a lot out; this is the best version. ❤️

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Amanda's avatar

To be BRAVE! Rooting for you no matter the circumstance. Keep fighting for your heart! ❤️

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

I'm sure I'll look back one day and see this as bravery but right now it just seems…hard. But thank you so much for rooting for me, Amanda. It means everything. ❤️

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Karla's avatar

1) I feel that it is incredibly kind of you to share as much as you did with us, because as the person said previously, you don’t owe your readership any explanations into personal circumstances. You allows your audience a better “lens” so to speak on your mindset for future posts. 2) I think this could be the foreword to an incredible journey.

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Thanks for reading and supporting, as always, Karla. I'll share more as it makes sense to and when I'm comfortable enough to go there. Once it's on the internet, it's there forever, so I try to keep that in the forefront of my mind when writing.

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Venessia's avatar

Praying for you Andrea and rooting for you forever. You don't have to reveal anything that triggers you right now as you don't owe anyone a damn thing about your personal life. Remember when you wrote and told us you learned to drive? That one step forward enabled you to jump in your car and drive towards your future. Never forget: Even baby steps are steps. Heal and Grieve all that was lost so you can keep taking baby steps forward. I recommend this book: https://amzn.to/38zwmMH and also this one: https://amzn.to/2K3WEgs

-Venessia

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Andrea E. Hall's avatar

Thank you for rooting and praying for me, Venessia. And that's a word — "even baby steps are steps." And thanks for the book recs, too! I think I have to have "Bone."

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